Halloween

I decided to have a Halloween party for my kids at school. I taught about it all week, spent a lot of money on candy and decorations, asked permission to teach about it and to have the party. The day before the party I was told that the party would have to be changed to another day or be canceled. I was a little flustered about changing it. The next day I got a text message from a 3rd party who knows people at my school saying that people are concerned because they think it is a religious holiday (they said halloween sounds like halleluiah?) and that they were nervous that the Muhammadiyah Ulama would be upset if I had this party, and so on. I became veryyy upset about this misunderstanding, mainly because I was never approached about it and only came to know about it from an outside source. This came at the end of a not so great week. Earlier that week, my friend Erica found a massive scorpion in my house, I got a ticket (it was my fault, but very scary---I later found out that what I paid was not a ticket, but korupsi), got a flat tire, and my pipe in my bathroom was somehow leaking into my neighbor's house and flooding it.

Then came the Halloween fiasco. I had a breakdown about this, I do not know why but it was really upsetting to me. So I talked to Nelly from Aminef, and she had Pak Parto, her friend from Universitas Muhammadiyah Malang explain to them that it is not celebrated as a religious holiday, etc. So everything got smoothed over very quickly, and I got to have my party a week later.


It was so fun! The kids bobbed for apples, played pin the tail on the spider, did a candy jar guess,and carved jack-o-lanterns. Cultural misunderstanding has been fixed :)

Idul Fitri

It is almost December... that is crazy. Well I am way behind on this thing, so I have to go back long way to Idul Fitri, which was in October! For the actual holiday, I was in Singosari. But the day after Idul Fitri I took a train to Solo (Central Java) to visit my friends Putut and Elin. Putut and Elin both just finished their Phds at Ohio University in June and moved back to Indonesia. They live outside of Jakarta, but for Idul Fitri everyone goes home to their hometowns, and Putut's family is from Solo. It was really cool to be there because he has a large family (like 6 brothers and sisters I think) and it was the first time they had all been together at the same time in like 6 years! There were so many children running around, it was great. I went to a Wayang Orang show in Solo, and we also went to Gunung Lawu (Mt. Lawu).
Elin and I (above) Some future bobcats (below)

We also returned to the traditional Javanese house that Putut's father grew up in so that they could take a family photo, it was a really cool house.

After Solo I went to Yogyakarta for a day. Solo is not too far from Yogya and a few other ETA's were there, so I decided since I was so close I should stop by.

When I came back from Yogya (on an 8 hour overnight train ride--yuck), I went around to some of the other teachers houses at my school. It is a traditional Idul Fitri activity to go around and visit your friends or neighbors. You ask their forgiveness, because during Ramadan you are becoming closer to God, so after you have God's forgiveness you ask forgiveness from your fellow human beings. You say "Maaf mohon lahir dan batin" (or it is Mohon maaf lahir dan batin...I always forget haha). Anyways, what really happens is you stop by their houses, they make you eat lots of treats, and we did this at aout 10 houses. I was so terribly full, but everytime I tried to refuse food I was told I must at least try it because it is rude not to. I think I ate 800 cookies that day :( it was funny.